FAQ

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Getting Started
What is this site about?

My name is Jessica and I have created this website to raise awareness of people who tend to be serial cheaters, liars, deceitful creatures in order to protect unsuspecting and trusting individuals. This is not about gender, race, or sexual orientation. It is about providing a tool for everybody to check upon a potential date before it becomes an unnecessary liability that person's your life.

Who are you?

Jessica, just a woman from Europe. I have had good dates and I have had bad dates. That is part of life and everyone goes through this. However, what I have gone through, I don't wish to anyone. I survived a relationship that was not only mentally and physically abusive, I have also survived a murder attempt by my ex who ended up harassing me after I was able to run away from him. He is behind bars by now, I am now in a loving relationship but due to the sexual abuse I had to go through I can no longer have children. I have accepted my faith and learned to love myself and love others. Unfortunately, even though the wounds heal, you will never forget. If I can save someone from a type of person I have dated and ruined my life, my efforts were already worth it. People with malicious intents range from mild to wild and not everyone belongs to the same category, that is why you can review your ex-boyfriend or review your ex-girlfriend so others can learn from your experience before they go out on a date with that person. I wish all of you happiness and love!

How much does it cost to use this site?

It costs NOTHING! It is FREE and it will always be FREE, as long as I live. This is a public database of dates you most like would want to avoid, so everyone can spot the bad apples before they meet up with them. Tell your friends!

First, I advise you search for the full legal name of your partner (this will eliminate potential duplicate profiles being created). If you find that person, simply click on your ex’s profile and click on the SUBMIT REVIEW button. The next page will prepopulate your ex’s personal information so you don’t have to fill those out from scratch and your can submit a review faster. If your ex is not in our database yet, simply click on the ADD A CHEATER button on the homepage.

I would like to add/update the picture of my ex. How do I do that?

Simply search for your ex and on his/her page, click on the ADD IMAGE button.

I would like to update the contact information of my ex. How do I do that?

Email us at cheatersdb@protonmail.ch with the subject line: Update

Send us the following:

1. The URL for the person’s page you would like us to update.

2. The exact fields you would like us to update.

Please note that we are ONLY going to add the new information under the profile and we will NOT modify it. We want to ensure that the new information is added, but not overridden. This is how we can ensure that it is not the cheater, trying to modify or remove his real information that appears on our site.

Can I review same-sex ex-partners?

Yes, absolutely. It is all one love and unfortunately cheaters, liars and bad people in general know no limits in terms of gender, race, or sexual orientation. It is about the inner yourself and your actions that determine whether someone ends up on this website or not.

What countries cheaters exist in your database?

We are open to the world and accept submissions about cheaters worldwide. We want to raise awareness about these people wherever they are.

I am afraid of a retaliation by my ex if I put our true story on your website. Should I do it?

It is completely up to you. Nobody forces you to share your story with the world. Once you submit the review of your ex, we will NOT store any personally identifiable information about you. If you want to keep your ex guessing, you can use generic statements about the person so that the person will not know exactly which ex has submitted the review. 

IMPORTANT: If at any point you do NOT feel comfortable sharing your story and/or more importantly, afraid of your safety because you think that writing a review of your ex is going to put you in an unsafe position please DO NOT POST A REVIEW! Your safety, well-being and peace of mind is more important than anything else in this world. I am a lady and I can fully appreciate what some of you may be going through as you read this. Think about it carefully. Be rather safe than sorry.

I published a review of my ex but I changed my mind and I want you to remove it. Can you?

Unfortunately, since I do not know who submitted the review, I will have no way of knowing that the same person is asking me to remove it. Your ex may be writing me, posing as you, asking me to have it removed. Again, I don't store any information about you once you submit a review, therefore I have no way of knowing that the same person is asking for it to be removed.

I am the ex who was reviewed on your website. You have to remove me, otherwise I will file a lawsuit against you and take you down!

I am starting to understand why your ex has left you and left this review of you. Let me tell you where we stand and how it can be mitigated because I am an advocate of the ideology of live and let live. This website serves as an open platform that comprises a community of people, sharing their experiences about their previous relationships and enables information exchange free of charge. Think of us as a social media platform, people can talk freely about others without censorship and the truth is that in their respective countries this is one way or another protected by their right for free speech. Of course, I admit that no platform is perfect and yes, there may be people posting negative and untrue statements about their exes. I get that and the integrity of this website is of paramount importance to me and I am here to work with you should your case be applicable. If you are interested in disputing the information that appears about you, please read very carefully the next Q&A.

What is the dispute process and resolution?

You have two options once a review has been posted about you:

OPTION #1: Submit a rebuttal

Email us at cheatersdb@protonmail.ch with the subject line: Rebuttal

Send us the following:

1. The URL for your page.

2. Your response (minimum 100 characters), but remember, keep your cool if you want it published!

3. The copy of your picture ID which can be your EU/UK/USA national ID, drivers license, or a country issued passport so that we can ensure that it is truly you who is responding. For your privacy, you can redact sensitive information but we must see your full legal name and your picture. This will be deleted irrevocably immediately after verification.

Wait up to 72 hours and your response will be published. Failure to comply with every point of the above-mentioned policy will result in your content not being published.

OPTION #2: Request a removal

Email us at cheatersdb@protonmail.ch with the subject line: Removal

Under VERY EXTREME CIRCUMSTANCES (less than 5% of the cases) your review can be removed permanently from our website. This requires an additional due diligence process that may be time taking.

Send us the following:

1. The URL for your page.

2. Statement that you wish us to remove the content and someone from our department will be in touch with you via email to discuss the details of your case.

3. The copy of your picture ID which can be your EU/UK/USA national ID, drivers license or passport so that we can ensure that it is truly you responding. For your privacy, you can redact sensitive information but we must see your full legal name and your picture. This will be deleted irrevocably immediately after verification.